Example 1: »Do you see what I see? You don’t? How come? Look once again, look closer .. still don’t see it? There is something wrong with you!!«
Example 2: »Try this shoe … How come – it doesn’t fit you? Try once again … how come it doesn’t fit you? It fits my leg perfectly .. try once again .. ehh, something is wrong with you…«
Example 3: »You don’t understand math? How come … it is so easy, you just need to think and understand it: Cos 2x – Sin x … still don’t get it? How come you can get good grades at history, but you suck at math? What is wrong with you??«
Example 4: »Do you feel the muscle? Just take it slow! Don’t go too fast … take lighter weights and leave your ego aside! Still don’t feel the muscle? Ehh … something is wrong with you…«
Do you see what the above mentioned examples have in common? How many times have you heard (or even said to someone): »What is wrong with you?«
First of all – there is nothing wrong with your athlete/child/student/client/amateur athlete!